Posture Bondage and Well Meaning Trolls
So I am cruising the internet because I have been feeling pretty brain dead lately and am wondering if that is by design, not my design of course but who is to say not that it matters anyway in the ultimate scheme of things. So anyway I cam across posture bondage and thought I might find a new kind of bondage discipline focusing on posture training
Sorry guys I did not find that but I did find a lot of posture collars and one really stupid question with a stupider answer from perhaps the stupidest people into bondage I have ever read.
Now mind you I could understand were this girl just a scene type girl but she talks like a lifestyler. Her question was:
Always knew my guy was into bondage, he now wants to put me in a posture collar and head harness gag in bed!
I don’t really want to, have tried them both on and VERY unconfortable, I have to admit do find it a little kniky! lol but not doin it every night!!
what should i do??
Well the answer would be talk to him not this godforsaken place where you are bound to get stupid answers but stupid is as stupid does….
So of course the inevitable happened as you can read in the answer:
Don’t do anything that you are not comfortable with. In a mutually satisfying relationship, both partners agree to what happens in bed and out of it. Once you stop communicating your desires and dislikes, you let discontent eat away at you and eventually it catches up in the bedroom. Tell him the truth, if he respects you, he will have to respect your feelings on the subject of bondage and maybe the two of you can come up with a comprimise. Good luck!
Read the stupid exchange and the multitude of idiotic answers here.
My answer would have been:
You can approach your Master respectfully and tell him of your fears and discomfort but do not expect him to bow to your will for it is him you were meant to please. Further you should take pride in your discomfort because if pleases Him.
It upsets me when you get answers like the one you can read here because this person completely ignores the “relationship” but takes a side which in any relationship , that kind of ignorance can be an instrument in tearing something beautiful apart. You do not advise and obviously submissive woman to get some balls and force issues.
Guess this made the SAM come out in me!
Anyway I will go back to cruising for posture bondage as my pussy gets wet thinking about it! How interesting a concept!
