Becoming the Fellatio Queen!
Let’s talk about the second best part of the blow job, a lot of guys may argue that this is the best part but I disagree! The most important component in the blow job is enthusiasm. Who wants a blow fro someone who looks on the task as similar to an IRS audit? Do tell? Um, no one less of course we are talking about the guy who wants you to beg not to be forced to suck his cock, but I digress, that is a wholly different blog!
The second most important “talent” in giving great head is being able to deep throat. Whether they admit it or not ladies those guys are waiting to see you swallow that man meat with the ease of a sword swallower. All the licking, kissing and sucking is wonderful and adds tons of suspense for the magical vanishing cock show.
I find that the biggest obstacles in deep throating are both simply mind over matter. Fear is the biggy, being scared of gagging and not being able to breath. So I found the best trick is to relax. Relax and remind yourself that you will breathe again. Chant the mantra in your head if you must because it is a fact. You will get to breath again and unless he has his hand on the back of your head you will get to choose when. Gagging is the same thing relax and when you feel the very first tickles of the gag reflex you need to push the cock head past that point and you will find the feeling subsides quickly and is replaced with satisfaction because once you pass the gag reflex you are there. It is in your throat. Woot!
There is something to be said for laying on you back on the bed and letting your head hang off because it will give a clear pathway to the throat but for some that will increase the fear of deep throating because you are giving someone else control and when you are in fear of something you need to control it. For someone just learning it is always best to be in control of the blow!!
Most women do not have to resort to tricks but there is on that will help that gag reflex and that is a squirt of Chloraseptic. Chloraseptic will numb the back of your throat and help you overcome the gagging. Remember though there is something good about gagging. It produces all that thick saliva that is great for natural lube a big plus for all those organic girls! Deep throating will give you the same gobs of spit but don’t fear the spit or worry about it being to messy, the messier the better, have fun and play!
Both of you will get great joy as you head work on your graduation to Fellatio Queen!
